Tips to nourish your relationship

by **carelyn** Wed Sep 01, 2010 1:46 pm

To all women, do you want to have a long lasting relationship? Try these tips…

1. BE UNDERSTANDING – Don’t be too sensitive. If he called that he’d pick you up at 7pm but came late, do not pout right away. Listen to his explanations. Always be pleasant and courteous, speak kindly.
2. BE SUPPORTIVE – When ask for opinion, share your three cent’s worth. Don’t just say “bahala ka” If he ask to join him in an activity, do so.
3. HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR – If he accidentally spilled drink on your dress don’t blame him. Instead tell him, it’s ok that accidents do happen. He’d appreciate it.
4. KNOWS HIS LIKES AND DISLIKES – If he likes to tinker with things, than watch TV or sleep than shop, respect it.
5. BE GRACEFUL RECEIVER – Be proud to use what he gives you.
6. GO TO CHURCH & PRAY TOGETHER – A couple that do these practices will most likely stay together.

Good luck!

by **wizard_hacker** Wed Sep 01, 2010 3:09 pm

For all women daw .. Just want to share my idea as a man.

Point number 2 - BE SUPPORTIVE. This point is really needed especially if your husband works on technical firm. Oftentimes, he badly needed some ideas and opinion and your contribution can be a great benefit. If your advices are not needed, don’t share any unsolicited advices because it may just ruin the day. Many career executives had lost their enthusiasm when you don’t even share a support on their ideas when needed. I agree with Ms. Admin Carelyn on her perception; the word “bahala ka” is worst word that you can hear from a woman and will push your man away. Definitely, as a man, we also need to understand the emotions of our partner and point number 1 (Be Understanding) play a great role in a relationship.

Sense of humor - hmmmm share some joke like this http://www.migforces.com/jokes-f42/pamana-ni-lola-t14250.htm#122905 can brighten the day. It works. Being jolly and funny sometime is an advantage.

Cheers!
comfort me

by **heavensangel_force** Wed Sep 01, 2010 5:42 pm

how i wish that gah danda,thanks for sharing,

by **carelyn** Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:19 pm

kakainlove naman comments mo wizard...

@gah heaven, kaya mo yan

by **wizard_hacker** Wed Sep 01, 2010 9:05 pm

carelyn wrote:kakainlove naman comments mo wizard...

@gah heaven, kaya mo yan

Miss Admin akala ko sa Joke ni Lola ka nainlove Smile

. NO kidding "jokes" can make your partner smile. Sense of humor eka nga. When she introduce that sweet smile, time to give her a passionate kiss. Just don't forget to whisper to your partner the magic word "I LOVE YOU". Wew!