To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
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To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by papa_cologne Sat Jul 17, 2010 5:31 am
To those who are married, .. Not married .. and
soon to be married, I hope you will be touched with this story...
MARRIAGE
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and
said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly.
Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know
what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,
why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the
chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't
talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what
had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory
answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just
pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent
ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for
her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I
had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of
me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a
kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several
weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something
at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell
asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not
care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want
anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a
life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a
month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken
marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to
recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of
our bedroom to the front door ever morning.. I thought she was going
crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd
request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions.. . She laughed loudly and
thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to
face the divorce, she said scornfully..
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was
explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we
both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy
in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to
the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in
my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about
the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside
the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the
office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I
hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she
was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair
was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I
wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy
returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was
growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry
her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few
dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my
dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so
thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her
heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out.
To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an
essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer
and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I
might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms,
walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her
hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly;
it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held
her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I
held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked
intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the
door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked
upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not
want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead.. Do you have
a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I
won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I
didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each
other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on
our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed
the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my
wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and
wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I
run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a
relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the
bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot
give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend
and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a
real happy marriage!
soon to be married, I hope you will be touched with this story...
MARRIAGE
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and
said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly.
Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know
what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,
why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the
chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't
talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what
had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory
answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just
pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent
ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for
her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I
had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of
me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a
kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several
weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something
at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell
asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not
care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want
anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a
life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a
month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken
marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to
recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of
our bedroom to the front door ever morning.. I thought she was going
crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd
request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions.. . She laughed loudly and
thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to
face the divorce, she said scornfully..
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was
explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we
both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy
in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to
the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in
my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about
the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside
the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the
office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I
hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she
was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair
was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I
wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy
returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was
growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry
her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few
dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my
dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so
thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her
heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out.
To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an
essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer
and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I
might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms,
walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her
hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly;
it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held
her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I
held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked
intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the
door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked
upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not
want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead.. Do you have
a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I
won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I
didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each
other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on
our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed
the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my
wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and
wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I
run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a
relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the
bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot
give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend
and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a
real happy marriage!
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by simpleme_force Sat Jul 17, 2010 6:13 am
It's a very touching story bro papa!!!
Thank you for sharing this very nice story that reminds each & everyone what really matters in love!!!
MONEY can't buy LOVE & TRUE HAPPINESS in life!!!
Thank you for sharing this very nice story that reminds each & everyone what really matters in love!!!
MONEY can't buy LOVE & TRUE HAPPINESS in life!!!
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by heavensangel_force Sat Jul 17, 2010 7:09 am
touching,i have already read same story as yours papa what a coincidence,i wish i could marry someone who will never ever leave no matter what..,
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by hondyx014_force Sat Jul 17, 2010 2:50 pm
Very touchable bro.although its to late but her wife make a good jod to make their marriage stay forever.thanks for sharing.Keep up the good work. 
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by lady_lans Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:49 pm
So0o0o so touching 
i love the st0ry..
Teary eyes here...hehehe.,
i love the st0ry..
Teary eyes here...hehehe.,
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by k-e-e-n Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:11 pm
There was this refrain from an old song:
Don't take them for granted.
Is there someone you know
You loving them so
But taking them all for granted
You may lose them one day
Someone takes them away
And they dont hear the words
You long to say
Don't take them for granted.
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by lady_lans Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:19 pm
k-e-e-n wrote:There was this refrain from an old song:Is there someone you know
You loving them so
But taking them all for granted
Then you lose them one day
Someone takes them away
And they dont hear the words
You long to say
Don't take them for granted.
tama... I love it,. "I w0uld gIve everything i own, gIve up my lifE,MY heart, my own" hehehe,.
sarap kantahin
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by k-e-e-n Fri Jul 23, 2010 10:39 pm
Lady_lans wrote:tama... I love it,. "I w0uld gIve everything i own, gIve up my lifE,MY heart, my own" hehehe,.
Ganda nga yang song na yan. Related sa topic. Yung part na yun
Yan pakinggan nyo guys.
...The hardest part is, saka nyo na lang malalamang mahalaga pala sya kung sya ay wala na...
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by pr3ty87_force Sat Jul 24, 2010 9:37 pm
Touching thanks f0r sharing bro.papa nakakaiyak naman yan huhuhu....
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by papa_cologne Thu Jul 29, 2010 9:44 pm
lady_lans wrote:So0o0o so touching
i love the st0ry..
Teary eyes here...hehehe.,
same here, teary eyes when i was on the last part of that story.. actually, i was searching for the book of bob ong (ikapito) when i found that story (can't remember the blogspot). don't know what caught my attention to read that story. i just found out that i almost cried after reading....
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by heavensangel_force Fri Jul 30, 2010 1:44 am
true aman yon eh,you only feel the love and need the person whe she/he is gone.,
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by re3mds3xynoty_force Tue Aug 03, 2010 7:57 pm
grabe na touch ako ahhhhh...whle im reading his story im crying i dnt know why vry sad stry,in d end of the story i feel hurt evn na d aq yung naka experience,naicp ko aykong mangyri sa akin yan..........oh no???/ 
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by danamae Tue Aug 10, 2010 5:39 pm
nakaka touch naman yan ....nakakaiyak 
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by brooke_shields Tue Aug 10, 2010 6:58 pm
sobrang na touch ako
asawa man or kaibigan , mahal mo man o hindi
bsta pinahalgahan k dapat pahalgahan m din
asawa man or kaibigan , mahal mo man o hindi
bsta pinahalgahan k dapat pahalgahan m din
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by keller_force Wed Aug 11, 2010 5:59 am
bat parang alang lalaki nag post:O:O:O
Please stay on topic
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by amethyst_14 Wed Aug 11, 2010 8:49 am
tnx for sharing again this is the second time i read it here in forum. the first was posted by jonas25 titled LOVE'S MYSTERY... i cried then and it really touches ones heart.. sometimes we learned lessons the hard way but thats life ... part of the journey.... whats important whatever mistakes we made in the past were making deeds to correct it... although in this story it was too late....
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by re3mds3xynoty_force Fri Aug 13, 2010 3:14 pm
oh lot lottttttttt luha mo mo jan maubos haamethyst_14 wrote:tnx for sharing again this is the second time i read it here in forum. the first was posted by jonas25 titled LOVE'S MYSTERY... i cried then and it really touches ones heart.. sometimes we learned lessons the hard way but thats life ... part of the journey.... whats important whatever mistakes we made in the past were making deeds to correct it... although in this story it was too late....
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by camhe22 Sat Aug 14, 2010 4:43 am
hahahaha brokeller_force wrote:bat parang alang lalaki nag post:O:O:OPlease stay on topic
married men should read this story, before you tried to do something which makes your partners to be hurt just think million times.
this story is full of moral lessons to be learned.
thank's fo sharing papa bro.
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Re: To those who are married, not married and soon to be married
by wizard_hacker Sun Sep 05, 2010 7:51 pm
I am a married man and no regrets of having an only daughter who possess a genius mind and always ask me, “Papa care to stay in the Philippines for a while?” There is a reason for everything and that reason must hold on my ideals not to go against the flow of life but to stand firm and say, “I am still alive for the sake of my daughter.” We learn and live for a reason – holding on for a marriage is just like holding on the dreams to be happy someday but until when?
As a father, providing financial needs of my only Princess is not enough and the guilt is always there but I must hold on to give her the best future she could imagine. When I am still working in our home country, I had experience to cook for the breakfast-in-bed of my Honey and offering one deep red rose and whispers “I love you”. I had tried to give my whole salary every payday and just ask for an allowance to keep safe in my wallet but reality struck when the financial needs is more than you earned. Leaving the country is an option that you can provide the needs of the family. It is a blessing waking up in the morning and see the face of the one you love but when you feel the needs and think of the future, you will decide to leave for a reason.
When future of your family is at stake, you need to moved out to the country and earn a living that can satisfy their needs. Eventually, you will get homesick, get bored and your other option is to go online, chat and sometimes flirt and cheat. Then stumble in darkness and ask yourself why you are more addicted to your chat mate than to talk to your wife who always nag and ask “Honey are you cheating on me?” and you will be irritated and may force yourself to change what you have started. A truth really hurts and sometimes betters to a carry the burden on your shoulder than to fall down on your dreams.
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Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. ~James C. Dobson
As a father, providing financial needs of my only Princess is not enough and the guilt is always there but I must hold on to give her the best future she could imagine. When I am still working in our home country, I had experience to cook for the breakfast-in-bed of my Honey and offering one deep red rose and whispers “I love you”. I had tried to give my whole salary every payday and just ask for an allowance to keep safe in my wallet but reality struck when the financial needs is more than you earned. Leaving the country is an option that you can provide the needs of the family. It is a blessing waking up in the morning and see the face of the one you love but when you feel the needs and think of the future, you will decide to leave for a reason.
When future of your family is at stake, you need to moved out to the country and earn a living that can satisfy their needs. Eventually, you will get homesick, get bored and your other option is to go online, chat and sometimes flirt and cheat. Then stumble in darkness and ask yourself why you are more addicted to your chat mate than to talk to your wife who always nag and ask “Honey are you cheating on me?” and you will be irritated and may force yourself to change what you have started. A truth really hurts and sometimes betters to a carry the burden on your shoulder than to fall down on your dreams.
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Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. ~James C. Dobson
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