Dont judge so that you wont be judge by them.

tama ka dyan khamuda,

pakner tama ka sa bgay na yan.usually ang taong namumuna ay taong masmarami pa ang mali.lahat tyo ay may kanya kanyang pananaw at pag iisip.minsan ang mali sa iba ay tama sa iba.at vise versa kaya wla tayong karapatang sabihin ang tama at mali.pwede lang nating bigyan ng payo o kumento but hindi ang pakialman ang personal n disisyun ng tao.
mali ang manghusga ng katauhan ng tao kasi maski nga sarili ntin minsan d pa ntin lubos na kilala.akala nga ntin na yung sinasabi nating mali ay tama pala.
keep and posting pakner ....godbless to the force family

thanx pakner god bless us all! have a great day ahead...

no one has the right to judge others ,not unless he's a judge wa he he he ...Only God himself has the right to do that...Ga thank's for that interesting topic..God bless us..

welcome and thank you too for sharing your views towards the topic..GOD BLESS GA

weW K0RAK MGA CZ AND BRO.

yap your right hipag maemar ko

We don't have the right to judge others coz no ones perfect. We all have our own flaws. We can only give advice and its up to the person if he follows it. We all have our own life to live. We better be more concern with our own than meddling in other people affairs. What's applicable to one person is not fitting to another. We may never know what we will do if were on the other shoes. We must learn how to respect one another. And don't judge the book if it has no cover.

Anybody can jugde me,dhl minsan di ko mkikita ang isang pgkakamali,if s0meone c0me and tel me,that im lyk this..na mali ang kilos or what..i can accept it.. Coz n0body got perfect except God.... God bless U all.

yup thats true cz maemar..its written in the bible.thanx for sharing

well ga its ur choice,but it doesnt mean that coz its our nature we'll just let it to go on specially when we are aware that its not the right thing to do..
tama yan kapwa u responsibilidad u but not in this sense ..spiritually yeah we have an obligation sa kapwa natin .. thanx for sharing ga.

amethyst_14 wrote:We don't have the right to judge others coz no ones perfect. We all have our own flaws. We can only give advice and its up to the person if he follows it. We all have our own life to live. We better be more concern with our own than meddling in other people affairs. What's applicable to one person is not fitting to another. We may never know what we will do if were on the other shoes. We must learn how to respect one another. And don't judge the book if it has no cover.

yeah cz ga,nobodys perfect so we dont have the right to judge..and giving advice is that what"responsibilidad u kapwa u"..but he or she wont listen then,its her/his choice.what is important is u do ur part ..and respect is such a short word but it is very important to each one of us to have it ,to have respect to others and vise versa..

thanx for sharing cz ga..AND TO ALL CZTAH THAT SHARED THIER THOUGTHS THANX ALOT..GOD BLESS!!

This is obviously easier said than done. It is possible to stop though with some practice, attention and a desire to eliminate it. The first step in not judging others is to simply stop voicing it. This is usually the hurtful part and if you can learn to keep judging comments to yourself, you can quickly eliminate any hurt you are causing to others directly. These might be anything from obvious verbal attacks, sarcasm, snide jokes about someone, gossip or subtle judgments like saying \"I know\", or using the \"but\" word after agreeing with something. Stop saying and doing these things and you will no longer be judging others on the surface at least! The old saying, \"If you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything!\" is a perfect thing to apply here.

Taking this to the next step, however, is important because having a judging mindset still leaves that negativity built up inside you. What’s needed is to learn to see the good side or opportunity side of any situation that you would have normally judged by instinct.


I don’t think anyone will ever completely eliminate judging others in their minds but it is possible to change how your response, by making it helpful, instead of a problem for someone or yourself. Ask yourself questions about the situation so you can learn something from it or help that person out. \"How can I respond in a way that’s useful to others?\". Use this for any judgment situation and you can easily turn around a negative thought or comment into something useful. Offering some help or assistance to someone in an area they are not excelling at, will be far more useful than telling them how poorly they are doing or by telling them how wrong they are. Look for ways to change the situation for the better. Wouldn’t you prefer an offer of help over an insult in an area you have not mastered?

As you look at people and situations with a helpful attitude, you will shift from judging them directly as a person to seeing (perhaps still judging) their actions . You won’t attack them as a person or their character and you can more comfortably look at ways to help them. Some advise or feedback about what they can improve on instead of accusing them of being or feeling a certainly way is definitely more useful and it will allow them be more open and receptive to whatever help you have to offer. The opportunities for this come daily with nearly every interaction you have with people, so make an effort and look for actions instead of wrongly assuming its a personality and look for ways to offer help instead of criticism.

Sis, remember this quote from certain philosopher,

“Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances.”

exactly bro,i know that thanx for sharing!

wizard_hacker wrote:Sis, remember this quote from certain philosopher,

“Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances.”

i agree with that bro, thats why we should not judge others coz you overlook the goodness in that person and focus on whats negative. its ok if its a constructive criticism. for me its ok if people judge me coz i know myself also and i cant prevent other people but i try not to do it to others. we just have to learn how to respect one another.

We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only
their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on
the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.

Do not judge, or you too will be judged. - Matthew 7:1

“We come not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly”

“What I do you cannot do; but what you do, I cannot do. The needs are great, and none of us, including me, ever do great things. But we can all do small things, with great love, and together we can do something wonderful.”