five basic ways of forgiving your offender

by **jonas.25_force** Mon Jun 01, 2009 9:41 am

1)Resist the temptation to be judgemental
Remember only God knows all circumstances.Leave the judging to Him
2)Learn to be compassionate
The best method is to use your imagination,put yourself in the other person's shoes,ask yourself whether the fault is entirely the other person's or whether there is some blame on your own part that needs to be honestly faced
3)Image the whole problem in terms of reconciliation
Visualize the broken relationship healed.See yourself freed of the poisons of resentment and anger.let your imagination suggest hopeful things you will accomplish with increased energy that will come to you.
4)Pray for that person who has offended you
If this is difficult(and it will be),pray for God's grace to come into your heart to give you the strenght to do it.Remind yourself that the act of forgiveness will benefit you more than the other person.
5)End your prayer with the Lord's prayer.
Give special thought and emphasis to the part that ask God to forgive us as we forgive us our debtors

by **unfeigned_force** Mon Jun 01, 2009 7:24 pm

whitwew!! how i wish someone will read this ga .. and i hope and pray tha if ever he will it may help him/her to change even just a bit...
im not perfect i made mistake but thats not the only reason that i must be judge ... Crying or Very sad