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Is it bad to get mad? That all depend on how you handle it. Frankly, individuals who never get angry don't amount too much. Steel without temper is worthless, and individuals without a certain amount of temper fail to make much of an impact in terms of character. There is a vast difference though between being angry and staying angry.
You can do one of three things with your anger:
1. Suppress it.
2. Save it.
3. Vent it.
Dr. Paul Carlson, a christian psychiatrist, has written, "Anger, in my opinion, is like energy. It cannot be destroyed, but it can be stored or its form can be changed. When we bury the anger within us and repeatedly deny its existence, it accumulates in what i call an unresolved anger fund. The more we suppress anger, the more it accumulates." Meet three people, all whom would deny that they are angry.
First, meet "Peace-at-any-price Polly" Polly grew up in a home with an alcoholic father whose outbursts of temper produced beatings and foul language. She learned not to trigger his temper. Although she said she would never marry someone like her dad, she did that very thing, and when her husband developed a drinking problem, she suppressed her anger.
The second individual who suppresses anger is "Mable the Manipulator"She has a hard time saying what's on her mind, so when communication is difficult, she fights back with mood-swings, headache, and pouting. Actually, she manipulates her husband to get her way. She's angry but she doesn't know how to handle it properly.
The third person is "Sam the Sacker" Sam keeps a large emotional sack handy, and when people anger him, he stays cool on the outside but makes a careful note and stores it away. Eventually he dumps the sack of emotional garbage, going back into the past and documenting every injustice he has received.
All three are angry, yet would deny it. They reap the physical consequences of their anger from headaches to ulcers, from hypertension to backpains. Their hostility comes out in different ways.
A fourth option is to vent your anger in proper way. Ephesians 4:26 says "Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath!" The bible never calls anger as sin, only anger handled in a wrong way. Make it work for you. If you must be angry, don't remain angry!
Is it bad to get mad? That all depend on how you handle it. Frankly, individuals who never get angry don't amount too much. Steel without temper is worthless, and individuals without a certain amount of temper fail to make much of an impact in terms of character. There is a vast difference though between being angry and staying angry.
You can do one of three things with your anger:
1. Suppress it.
2. Save it.
3. Vent it.
Dr. Paul Carlson, a christian psychiatrist, has written, "Anger, in my opinion, is like energy. It cannot be destroyed, but it can be stored or its form can be changed. When we bury the anger within us and repeatedly deny its existence, it accumulates in what i call an unresolved anger fund. The more we suppress anger, the more it accumulates." Meet three people, all whom would deny that they are angry.
First, meet "Peace-at-any-price Polly" Polly grew up in a home with an alcoholic father whose outbursts of temper produced beatings and foul language. She learned not to trigger his temper. Although she said she would never marry someone like her dad, she did that very thing, and when her husband developed a drinking problem, she suppressed her anger.
The second individual who suppresses anger is "Mable the Manipulator"She has a hard time saying what's on her mind, so when communication is difficult, she fights back with mood-swings, headache, and pouting. Actually, she manipulates her husband to get her way. She's angry but she doesn't know how to handle it properly.
The third person is "Sam the Sacker" Sam keeps a large emotional sack handy, and when people anger him, he stays cool on the outside but makes a careful note and stores it away. Eventually he dumps the sack of emotional garbage, going back into the past and documenting every injustice he has received.
All three are angry, yet would deny it. They reap the physical consequences of their anger from headaches to ulcers, from hypertension to backpains. Their hostility comes out in different ways.
A fourth option is to vent your anger in proper way. Ephesians 4:26 says "Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath!" The bible never calls anger as sin, only anger handled in a wrong way. Make it work for you. If you must be angry, don't remain angry!

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hahahaha cz anji pd naman sa tabing dagat o ilog d ba or sa loob ng kwarto mo jas breathe in and out sabay sigaw ka luluwag ung dibdib moheavensangel_force wrote:nah czjelay sa m0untain mo gagawin yon hehe para wla makarinig sayo ay.jelay25 wrote:RELAX ,THEM BREATHE IN AND BREATHE OUT SBAY SUMIGAW KA NG MALAKAS ,SAMMITIN ANG DARNAAAAAAAA HEHEHEHE ESTE GALIT AKOOOOOOOO ,MAKITA MO PAGKATAPOS CZ MAGAAN NA ANG LOOB MO




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nextym anjiekew wala aq sa mood now
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr............ 



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nah reemkew overstress,drink cold water 

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OWO NGA ANJIEKEW IM VERY STRESSSSSSSS ABT WORK LAGNG PUYAT 

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JEJEJE..............LIBANGAN QNA LANG BABY Q USAP LAGI PAG STRESSSSSSSSS MRINIG Q LNG BOSES NYA OK NA AKO



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Pala eh reemkew chat nlang kayo ni baby mo o kantahan ka nya sa phone call
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wow madali mawala ang galit mo if you are inspired, or pwede rin you buy a lots of balloons tapos paliparin mo ksama ng galit mo isigaw mo na rin doon mawawala yon rčemkew,


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AHAKKKK..................heavensangel_force wrote:wow madali mawala ang galit mo if you are inspired, or pwede rin you buy a lots of balloons tapos paliparin mo ksama ng galit mo isigaw mo na rin doon mawawala yon rčemkew,













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first, icipn u muna magi2ng itsura u pag magalit ka?
second, tingnan u kung ka level u ba kaaway mo?
last but not d list d maganda sa paningin ng mga tao ang gal na palaaway
kaya inhale,exhale lang reemtot sabay sabi, may araw k rin
second, tingnan u kung ka level u ba kaaway mo?
last but not d list d maganda sa paningin ng mga tao ang gal na palaaway

kaya inhale,exhale lang reemtot sabay sabi, may araw k rin

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reemkew sa dagat ka nga pumunta,cheers reemkew,yan oh basahin u din kay reinkew
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AKEW DINADAAN KEW LNG YAN SA LIGO..DEN AFTER SHOWER OK NA KEW HIHI..


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ate gallllllllllll..............rein_force wrote:first, icipn u muna magi2ng itsura u pag magalit ka?
second, tingnan u kung ka level u ba kaaway mo?
last but not d list d maganda sa paningin ng mga tao ang gal na palaaway![]()
kaya inhale,exhale lang reemtot sabay sabi, may araw k rin![]()












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heavensangel_force wrote:reemkew sa dagat ka nga pumunta,cheers reemkew,yan oh basahin u din kay reinkew














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re3mds3xynoty_force wrote:anjiekewwwkasi pag galit aq lahat tlga nang gamit lipad dna pwde gamtin ater dat ok na
praninggggggggggggggg d ba
mz u how about ur pc dba lumipad?

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hndi maganda y0n tinatapon mo gamit parang ako tapon cp ndi pc hahaha,kain kna lang ice cream reemkew nkakatakot ka wahh crazy tawag dun hehehe
stay cool makes you calm down 


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let go your anger,try remembering sweetest moments heheh,go in a coolest place and relaxed 

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rx me tnatabi q mna yung pc q pag galit aq bka lumpad sayanggrx_force wrote:re3mds3xynoty_force wrote:anjiekewwwkasi pag galit aq lahat tlga nang gamit lipad dna pwde gamtin ater dat ok na
praninggggggggggggggg d ba
mz u how about ur pc dba lumipad?






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kasi anjiekew dun sa gmit q cnsabi galit q d dun sa tao kht galit na galit na aq im vry quiet...........kya kwawa nman things pnagdidiskitan.............crazyyyyyyyy ba???????heavensangel_force wrote:hndi maganda y0n tinatapon mo gamit parang ako tapon cp ndi pc hahaha,kain kna lang ice cream reemkew nkakatakot ka wahh crazy tawag dun hehehestay cool makes you calm down








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ngaksssssssssssss........heavensangel_force wrote:hndi maganda y0n tinatapon mo gamit parang ako tapon cp ndi pc hahaha,kain kna lang ice cream reemkew nkakatakot ka wahh crazy tawag dun hehehestay cool makes you calm down

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carelyn wrote:Is it bad to get mad? That all depend on how you handle it. Frankly, individuals who never get angry don't amount too much. Steel without temper is worthless, and individuals without a certain amount of temper fail to make much of an impact in terms of character. There is a vast difference though between being angry and staying angry.
You can do one of three things with your anger:
1. Suppress it.
2. Save it.
3. Vent it.
Dr. Paul Carlson, a christian psychiatrist, has written, "Anger, in my opinion, is like energy. It cannot be destroyed, but it can be stored or its form can be changed. When we bury the anger within us and repeatedly deny its existence, it accumulates in what i call an unresolved anger fund. The more we suppress anger, the more it accumulates." Meet three people, all whom would deny that they are angry.
First, meet "Peace-at-any-price Polly" Polly grew up in a home with an alcoholic father whose outbursts of temper produced beatings and foul language. She learned not to trigger his temper. Although she said she would never marry someone like her dad, she did that very thing, and when her husband developed a drinking problem, she suppressed her anger.
The second individual who suppresses anger is "Mable the Manipulator"She has a hard time saying what's on her mind, so when communication is difficult, she fights back with mood-swings, headache, and pouting. Actually, she manipulates her husband to get her way. She's angry but she doesn't know how to handle it properly.
The third person is "Sam the Sacker" Sam keeps a large emotional sack handy, and when people anger him, he stays cool on the outside but makes a careful note and stores it away. Eventually he dumps the sack of emotional garbage, going back into the past and documenting every injustice he has received.
All three are angry, yet would deny it. They reap the physical consequences of their anger from headaches to ulcers, from hypertension to backpains. Their hostility comes out in different ways.
A fourth option is to vent your anger in proper way. Ephesians 4:26 says "Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath!" The bible never calls anger as sin, only anger handled in a wrong way. Make it work for you. If you must be angry, don't remain angry!![]()


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