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Post by jelay25 on Fri Jan 15, 2010 3:32 am

ONE OF THE MOST DIFFICULT CHALLEGES IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS IS HANDLING DIFFERENCES AND DISAGREEMENTS.OFTEN WHEN COUPLES DIS-AGREE THEIR DISCUSSIONS CAN TURN INTO AGRUMENTS AND THEN WITHOUT MUCH WARNING INTO BATTLES.SUDDENLY THEY STOP TALKING IN A LOVING MANNER AND AUTOMATICALLY BEGIN HURTING EACH OTHER...........BLAMMING,ACCUSSING ,DEMANDING,RESENTING AND DOUBTING.MEN AND WOMEN ARGUING IN THIS WAY HURT NOT ONLY THEIR FEELINGS BUT ALSO THEIR RELATIONSHIP.JUST AS COMMUNICATION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP,ARGUMENTS CAN BE THE MOST DESTRUCTIVE ELEMENT,BECAUSE THE CLOSER WE ARE TO SOMEONE,THE EASIER IT IS TO BRUISE OR TO BE BRUISED.


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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by brooke_shields on Fri Jan 15, 2010 5:53 pm

Set aside time to share your thoughts and feelings.

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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by jelay25 on Fri Jan 15, 2010 6:59 pm

have a nice day
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by gladden_force on Fri Jan 15, 2010 9:13 pm

dont talk....un lang hahahaha
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by brooke_shields on Fri Jan 15, 2010 11:04 pm

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Gladden_force wrote:dont talk....un lang hahahaha
may tama ka

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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by heavensangel_force on Sun Jan 24, 2010 12:44 pm

be openminded,,stay calm and h0nest
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by jelay25 on Wed Jan 27, 2010 5:49 am

heavensangel_force wrote:be openminded,,stay calm and h0nest
YS MISS ANJI CONTROLLED HOT TEMPER
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by jelay25 on Wed Jan 27, 2010 5:51 am

Gladden_force wrote:dont talk....un lang hahahaha
HEHEHEHE OO NGA KC MARAMING SALITA MARAMING MALI KUNTING SALITA KUNTI ANG MALI
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by jelay25 on Wed Jan 27, 2010 6:01 am

winona wrote:Set aside time to share your thoughts and feelings.
YES CZ NEGOTIATE FOR WHAT YOU WANT BUT DONT ARGUE .IT IS POSSIBLE TO BE HONEST OPEN AND EVEN EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS IN ORDER TO AVOID CONFLICT AND NOT ARGUE.
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by heavensangel_force on Fri Jan 29, 2010 4:22 am

Always stay cool,and talk friendly in a nice way!
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Post by heavensangel_force on Fri Jan 29, 2010 4:24 am

Always stay cool,and talk friendly in a nice way!
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by batang-mental on Fri Jan 29, 2010 2:51 pm

nothing else matters

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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by re3mds3xynoty_force on Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:24 am

IF IM ANGRY WD SME1 ELSE I DNT TALK BUT WORSE I WILL THROW THINGSSSSSS UNTIL D NA CYA PAKI NABANGAN no no MY TEMPER IS VRY BAD CZ JELAYYYYYYYY poke
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by jelay25 on Tue Feb 02, 2010 5:14 pm

re3mds3xynoty_force wrote:IF IM ANGRY WD SME1 ELSE I DNT TALK BUT WORSE I WILL THROW THINGSSSSSS UNTIL D NA CYA PAKI NABANGAN no no MY TEMPER IS VRY BAD CZ JELAYYYYYYYY poke
.....CZ REEM BADTEMPER KA DIN PALA ...LIKE U DID MOKMOK SA ISANG TABI OK DIN YON PARA ALA NA LANG AWAY
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by batang-mental on Tue Feb 02, 2010 11:29 pm

Any healthy and growing relationship must have arguments and differences now and then. They can be worked and easily avoided through varied methods. Honesty is a key theme for any relationship to succeed. Be very plain and open with each other by following a rigorous culture of honesty. Avoid having a hidden agenda with your partner. Always tell and inform your partner the intentions you have whether now or in future. Make your partner a partner in planning and executing the many plans that you have in life. They feel more involved in whatever is happening in your life. But when cards are played under the table and your partner gets to know your activities through proxy, then i assure you that is a sure fight, it is dishonesty. Your partner is your life. Incorporate your lives and you will live harmoniously and avoid arguments in a relationship.

Communication is what puts balances and checks in a relationship. Learn how to express your feelings to your partner. Do not bottle up emotions inside your heart while you could share with your partner. If your partner hurts your feelings, do not keep quite. Approach your partner when everything has cooled down and discuss it in a controlled, cool and mature manner. Piled up emotions eventually explode with devastating effects in a relationship. Sometimes the damage they course is irreparable. It is always better to arrest the situation before matters get out of hand. Sit down and speak with your partner and talk to avoid arguments in a relationship. You are friends and friends share, make your partner your close confidant. Both of you can even resolve to always have a session before sleeping to iron out any differences that might have arose in the course of the day.

Forgiveness is not a weakness but a virtue. Understand your partner and possess a forgiving spirit. Try to accommodate your partner's short comings. Everyone has a weakness in one way or another. Do not look for perfection in your partner because you will be disappointed. Accept your partner the way she/he is. Do not focus your attention only on your partners bad side. Am sure their is a good side in your partner, concentrate on it while you help your partner in becoming a better person. To avoid arguments in a relationship, speak with as a pair on how to demarcate and allocate roles in the house. House chores might look like a non issue but remember no one is a servant to the other. You must share chores to avoid either of you being overburden and developing bitterness against your partner.

Money is the source of all evil. To avoid arguments in a relationship develop a comprehensive formula on how to manage financial matters between yourselves. For instance who should be paying the house bills or how should they be paid? Should you have a joint account or not? How is the welfare of the children going to be met and by who? Which formula will be used to service the mortgage loan? Should the expenditure of your home be a cost sharing project between the two of you? What if one partner is unemployed? Money matters is a tricky issue in any relationship and ought to be handled with kid gloves.

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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by jelay25 on Wed Feb 03, 2010 4:57 am

tol mental nahilo ako ha ,nice tol ur right...keep it up
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by re3mds3xynoty_force on Wed Feb 03, 2010 9:19 am

PATI AQ NAHILO KAY BABY KEW Twisted Evil
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Post by re3mds3xynoty_force on Wed Feb 03, 2010 9:21 am

OWO CZ JELAY PAG GALIT TLGA AQ AYKO KC NANG AWAY KYA TAMEME NSA SULOK Neutral
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by jelay25 on Wed Feb 03, 2010 3:49 pm

THE SECRET TO AVOIDING ARGUEMENTS THAT IS ''LOVING AND ''RESPECTFUL'' COMMUNICATION.
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Post by jelay25 on Wed Feb 03, 2010 3:55 pm

THE DIFFERNCES AND DISAGREEMENT DONT HURT AS MUCH AS THE WAYS IN WHICH WE COMMUNICATE THEM.IDEALLY AN ARGUMENT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE HURTFUL.INSTEAD IT CAN SIMPLY BE AN ENGAGING ,CONVERSATION TAHT EXPRESSES OUR DIFFERENCES AND DISAGREEMENT.
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by re3mds3xynoty_force on Fri Feb 12, 2010 12:26 pm

jelay25 wrote:THE DIFFERNCES AND DISAGREEMENT DONT HURT AS MUCH AS THE WAYS IN WHICH WE COMMUNICATE THEM.IDEALLY AN ARGUMENT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE HURTFUL.INSTEAD IT CAN SIMPLY BE AN ENGAGING ,CONVERSATION TAHT EXPRESSES OUR DIFFERENCES AND DISAGREEMENT.
have a nice day thumbs up hearty hearty hearty
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by heavensangel_force on Sat Feb 13, 2010 3:40 am

Kung ikaw ang nagsimula ng away ,say sorry to your partner
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Post by re3mds3xynoty_force on Sun Feb 21, 2010 8:25 pm

heavensangel_force wrote:Kung ikaw ang nagsimula ng away ,say sorry to your partner
kaso d aq nang aaway tampo lng hahaha......but i will never say sorry 4 watttttt? Evil or Very Mad
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Re: How to avoid arguments

Post by heavensangel_force on Mon Feb 22, 2010 4:51 am

wag nalang kayo pansinan,hehe namis ka lang kaya ganun ajejeje
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